Sunday, June 20, 2010

The Best Marriage Success Key

It's a Man's World: Men's Adventure Magazines, The Postwar Pulps
Is there a thing as Marriage Success Key? Then what is it? Well, it has to do with Eve being taken out of Adam's ribs. Listen well to this, second Eves.

While being sedated with spiritual anesthetic, God got a rib from Adam and turned it into Eve. Nope, that's not just fantasy--it's a fact, and it's the truth. It actually happened. So, the fact is, woman came from man. That's the marriage success key. What comes from man becomes man with a "wo." When Adam saw his by product, he was so astonished that he cried, "Wow, man!" And thus, the word "woman."

To simplify, we second Eves should remember that we came from our husband, as it were. We have the job of being one flesh with our husbands--of being like them. Same DNA, so to speak. We should become like them. We move into their world, until the time comes when we get to be comfy with what they do and what they like. When this happens, submitting to them in all things becomes a piece of cake. 

No, it's not necessarily a "Men's World" that we're living in. It's also a women's world. But we have to put things in their proper places so that the marriage success key would work. There are proper conditions for it to work as designed.

I note that marriages with problems where the wife finds it difficult to submit to the husband are those where the wife enjoys a different world than what the husband enjoys. The husband likes sports while the wife loves seeing concerts. Or, the wife has her own company of friends, and so does the husband. They always have different schedules for the day. With this scenario, it's unlikely that wife submission is going to happen on a daily basis. It goes against the marriage success key.

But if the wife acculturates into her husband's world, submission is easy. Why? Because what he likes she likes. What she likes he likes. Why does it have to be the wife who'd have to give in? Because it's ridiculous to see a husband being tamed by the wife to submission. Often, this situation produces a gender problem in the minds and personalities  of their offspring.
The Preacher's Wife

Now, while the wife submits, the husband should love her more. And this means the husband, too, should acculturate himself into the world of his wife. This way, it will be much easier for the wife to submit to him. If the wife likes sightseeing, the husband should initiate sightseeing trips now and then. But remember, the acculturation should being with the wife and complemented by the husband. This is the best marriage success key!

Why not post your marriage blessings on your own family website?

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